Bullying, name-calling, and put-downs remain pervasive challenges in schools across the country—whether in person or online. As we move through 2025, shifting social dynamics, digital connectivity, and evolving school policies demand fresh understanding and strategies. This article offers parents current insights, best practices, and actionable steps to support children who face verbal or relational aggression at school or online.
Understanding the Scope in 2025
Prevalence and Patterns
Verbal and relational bullying—name-calling, insults, rumors, exclusion—are among the most common forms reported by students. According to the Anti-Bullying Alliance, about 40% of young people experienced bullying within the past year, with name-calling being the most frequent form (around 26%) anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk. In U.S. schools, data from the National Center for Education Statistics shows that in 2021–22, roughly 19 percent of students ages 12–18 reported being bullied at school.
The digital realm has only expanded the reach. As of 2025, about 26.5% of American adolescents report experiencing cyberbullying within the prior 30 days. Lifetime online harassment increases that share further: BroadbandSearch notes that lifetime cyberbullying victimization in the U.S. has risen to 58.2% BroadbandSearch.
Equally concerning, research linking bullying to mental health outcomes continues to grow. A large-scale study of over 95,000 students found that even mild bullying correlates with significantly elevated risk of anxiety, depression, poor sleep, PTSD symptoms, and behavioral issues—and the risk multiplies with severity arXiv.
Who Is At Risk—and Why It Matters
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